“Get the inside right. The outside will fall into place.” —Eckhart Tolle A client wrote me and from her email, it was clear that she was in a desperate place....
Fear of Conflict and Losing Relationships
A few years ago, I lost a beautiful friendship. Mostly because I was too terrified to have a difficult conversation with her. This friend was particularly precious to me....
Tips for Managing Big Change
I wrote this article in 2017 just before we moved to the UK. That was many years ago. We’ve since become British Citizens and everything worked out well! Yes, there...
How to Lose your Confidence and Start Hating your Career
Recently I’ve been reminded by three separate people, that staying in a career that requires you to use your weaknesses, or simply not being able to use your strengths, can...
Three surprising reasons why willpower is ineffective… and what to do instead
less of A few mornings ago I had a deep conversation with an older lady dear to me. They were staying with us for a few days. We started by talking about how she wants to...
I just can’t say no!
How many times have you heard yourself say this? And I bet you wish you could say that little word. To those requests that take your time, that you don’t really feel...