Write a book

Is it your dream to write a book?

Since I’ve written and published 2 books, many prospective authors have contacted me for information, guidance and advice about how to write and publish their own books.

If this is you – congratulations on deciding to walk this fulfilling road!

It’s the most amazing and fulfilling thing I’ve ever accomplished and I encourage you with my whole heart and soul to go for it!

You can do it, just like I did – if you make that commitment, set your course, and take action.

Here are some Frequently Asked Questions. 


I want to write a book and I can’t find a topic.

I know what this one feels like. I struggled for 2 years to find my first topic! Here are some guidelines that could help you. Set aside an hour to brainstorm these questions.

First, decide what do you want the book to do for you. What’s your purpose for writing a book?

I’ve found people mostly want to write for these three reasons.

  • To earn an income from the sales of the book
  • You have an urge to write or love to write and you don’t care who reads it
  • You really have something to say (a valuable message) and you’re just not sure who wants to hear it



Do research on the internet FIRST about what topics get readers. It’s no good to do hundreds of hours of work and then find there’s no-one who’s interested in your topic. That’s one of the common mistakes made by prospective authors.

From personal experience, I want to let you know that writing the book is one thing.

Marketing it is the piece we don’t know about when we start writing. There are 41,000 new books published every single day!! If we write on a topic people don’t really want to know about, your book will disappear in the masses. Google Keyword Tools is a good place to search to make sure you find a topic that is of interest to enough people.

Also – people are busy and want to read something quickly to take action on it. People want solutions to their problems. If you want to make money with a book, provide a solution people are willing to pay for.


Urge to Write

Start with a blog (your own) or guest blogging on other people’s blogs about subjects that interest you – you’ll start building up a repertoire of topics and from that, you’ll get ideas about which topics you could expand upon and what excites you. A book is a long term project. If you want to embark on this journey and actually finish a book, make sure to pick a topic that’s going to be interesting and exciting for YOU to spend many, many, many hours with.

What is a blog?

It’s a website where people write articles, thoughts, ideas, and the newest article climbs to the top of the list. Click here for my example. You can build a blog easily in WordPress, by yourself.

Something to Say – Valuable Message

If you love writing and it feels like you want to contribute to the world, and leave people with a valuable message, brainstorm these questions and write down the answers.

  • What have you overcome?
  • What are you good at?
  • What do you really love to do?
  • What have you struggled with and what solutions have you come across for that problem?
  • What have you developed a specific skill with?


I worry about who will Publish my book

Yes, I understand this one too well. I did the same. I almost didn’t start with my book because I’d heard of so many people receiving hundreds of “rejection slips”. I didn’t want to put myself through that and almost made the mistake of not starting at all. There are other ways to do it!

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase. ” ~ Martin Luther King

Here are some tips.

  • Start writing anyway, even if you have no idea about publishing. No one ever has to know what the end result looks like to start! If you’re at the bottom of a staircase, you don’t have to know what it looks like on the landing in order to take the first step. Just start and keep going.  You’re sending a signal to the Universe that you’re serious about your book if you keep writing even if you don’t know the end.
  • You don’t have to publish with a traditional publisher. There are pros and cons to having one. There are other options!
  • You can publish your book on Kindle and for that you don’t need a publisher. You DO need someone to upload it to Kindle in the correct format if you’re not a techy person.
  • You can publish your book via any of a variety of self-publishing companies. CreateSpace and Lulu are two examples.
  • The bottom line is to write, write, write. Solutions will follow along the way. Don’t let “not knowing the end” stop you from starting.
  • Contact the Publisher of my own book “No Problem. The Upside of Saying No”. They publish books that make a difference – generally not novels, but you can check with them. The contact person is Robin Beck – please tell him I sent you!


How to even write the first word

  • Decide on a topic.
  • Write one word, then one paragraph, then one page – until your book is finished. A book is not a quick thing. Sometimes you’ll write a page a day, sometimes 10 because it’s just flowing and you’re inspired. And sometimes you can’t face the computer. And it’s all normal.
  • If you feel yuck about not writing, or you’re not sticking to your planned schedule, use a tool like EFT or The Sedona Method to get you past the reluctance.  It really, really works.
  • It won’t get done if you haven’t made a commitment to finish! Commitment is key, it’s the first step. Download my 7 day ecourse on how to let your dream become a reality by filling in your name and email address top right of this page.
  • Maybe you just need a practice run – write short things, try out different topics. Write a blog or write blog posts for someone else. Practice your writing skills while you’re pondering your topic. Something will pop up!


Writing Tools

  • I started out writing in Microsoft Word.
  • Make sure you know how to use the Headings and Table of Contents features – it makes finding things a whole lot easier.
  • Scrivener is a tool I found later and it makes the writing process even easier! You can write tiny chunks at a time and feel like you’re making progress.
  • Here’s a Youtube video clip to help you get a grip on what it offers

Resources for Communicating with your Readers

Once you’ve written your book, you would want to communicate with subscribers so you can build a business and share snippets, tips and tools from your book.

For this, I use Aweber – a wonderful communication tool to chat with subscribers and let them know about new books and offerings.


Read more here. 
Writing desk

A bit of background around my writing history

 I had a yearning to write for a very, very long time… wayyyyyy before I started writing my first book. A kind, inspirational teacher told my parents one day that I had it in me to write a book. That made such an impression on me. Even though I didn’t remember the thought till I was in my forties, when it DID grab me, it simply wouldn’t let go.

I kept dreaming of spiders one year. A trainer in a PSYCH-K class asked me whether I had considered writing, because spiders are (in folklore and mythology) the original “spinners” of the alphabet. And right there, the big yearning was rekindled…

It wasn’t a simple or easy journey. In fact, it took me around.

3 years to even land on a topic for a book! I knew I “had” to write.  It was very difficult to have that deep longing, yet not know what to write about.

Finally, in May 2013 I published my first book, and in August 2015, my second. More are on the way, I’m happy to say.