A Client’s Results with Panic Attacks and EFT

Have you wondered how effective EFT really is for panic attacks? In this article, I’ll describe the results a recent client had with her panic attacks as a result of our EFT sessions.

Willow (name changed for privacy) came to me via referral from a previous client.

She’d had a tough childhood with various challenges and had therapy as a child, but it didn’t work for her. She saw several therapists and psychologists, though felt the chemistry was lacking for her to trust them enough to go to deep, uncomfortable places.

Willow was on medication for many years to relieve depression and anxiety (a family issue). But then, about 5 years ago, she decided she did not want the medication route anymore and she started investigating how to overcome her challenges in more natural ways. She found things like positive psychology, plant remedies, aromatherapy, and even EFT. She knew her Top 5 CliftonStrengths and felt proud of them.

Although she knew about those ‘helpers’ and used them to an extent, it was still hard for her to make enough progress by herself.

(Side Note: I’ve seen this many times for my clients and in my own life, dear reader. It is particularly hard to make progress by ourselves on a long-standing issue that goes deep. We need support, kindness, and a space held by another person to see through all the layers that are keeping our issues in place.)

We met for a complimentary Chemistry session to see whether we’d be a good fit. Willow mentioned she wanted an emotional coach. Someone who could teach and support her with emotional techniques… to help her decide what works and what doesn’t.

Willow’s Main Challenge: Panic attacks

One of the big challenges she faced was panic attacks, under very specific circumstances. If anyone mentioned being hurt, or when she saw blood, she would experience a panic attack to the point of losing consciousness. Even something random like pinching her finger in something small could set this off.

It was extremely scary for her. When she came around after such an event, people around her said it seemed like she was having a kind of fit. It took her a few seconds every time to figure out who and where she was. It felt like she’d completely left her body.

The episodes were scary in themselves, but more so because she could not predict when they would happen. She could be anywhere — at home, at work, out shopping, with friends. It was embarrassing and awful for her that she could not control her body’s responses. She did not think it was possible to be completely free of these horrifying effects, but she at least wanted some tools and techniques to use when they did occur.

The Support She Required

She did see a psychiatrist about 2 weeks before our meeting. It sounded like epilepsy to him, but it wasn’t really frequent enough for that. Willow could trace every event to specific triggers that set off her body’s response. She did not want to go back on epilepsy medication (she’d been on it before) — because it would cause unwanted changes in her brain again (like before).

Her biggest wish: “If I could just calm myself down and catch myself before it gets to that fit!”

She also wanted help with her goals. Willow has a beautiful, creative mind with so many ideas that it was hard for her to focus on one at a time.

After this beautiful Chemistry Call, we both felt we were a fit and that the skills and tools in my toolbox would support her.

Goals for our Work Together

When I start working with a new client, I ask them to set goals or intentions for our work together. Here are 2 of Willow’s 5 goals:

1. “I would like to have better control over my emotions — I would like to develop better coping mechanisms to tap into when things get very overwhelming. Similarly, I want to improve the way I respond and react to things. I want to be more present in my relationships and not “overreact” or allow things to get to me.”

2. “I would like to develop coping mechanisms for how to handle my intense panic attacks (in the case where people talk of blood or gore which makes me get lightheaded and eventually pass out).”

Sometimes clients have many goals, and I always ask, “What’s your priority here?”

For Willow, this was:

“First and foremost — emotions. I would like to share my experience of becoming aware of them, and I’d like to learn how to handle them and understand and work with them.”

Our First Session

Willow let me know what she most wanted for the session: to work with her emotions, and how to become more aware of them and her thoughts. She wanted a physical coping method and was curious about how EFT might be able to support her. She wanted to find better ways to respond to triggers, big and small.

Our first session was focused on introducing Willow to EFT in a gentle way.

When I know there is a lot under the surface especially, I introduce my clients to EFT with something completely unrelated to what they’re wanting help with. I first showed her the EFT points, and what we were going to do. And then we applied a few rounds of EFT for some frustration around her boss.

Emotions show up

The tears started flowing for her, and the intensity went down very quickly with EFT. She shared afterward that as soon as we started tapping, her mind jumped to many judgmental and painful messages she’d received (from him and others) over the years. After just a few rounds of tapping, she was calmer and felt less bugged by those thoughts and memories.

For the rest of the session, we worked with various things that showed up: how her throat closes up when she feels emotional, pain there when she wants to say something but can’t, unfair expectations from others, anxiety before she does her teaching calls, getting nervous because of all their eyes on her. She became aware of sensations in her body when emotions were shifting.

We ended the session with EFT tapping for things she wanted to experience instead of what she did experience. We call this ‘Choices Tapping’ — we can build in some positive expectations which usually helps us feel much more hopeful.

At the end of the session, she said she felt calm, neutral, and nowhere near as emotional as at the beginning of the session.

The journey

We met every 2 weeks for 3 months. In fact — we had only 5 sessions in total and then took a break.

During those 5 sessions, Willow experienced many instances of going from intense emotion to calm and relief after just a few minutes of tapping.

In every session, we worked with various aspects that led up to the panic attacks. We always used the ‘Gentle Techniques’ as we call them in EFT. They help us not to jump right back into the experiences (associate) — so that we are not flooded or overwhelmed by intensity. We did every session as safely and gently as possible, especially because emotions were already a scary thing for her.

The first few times emotion showed up for her, she apologized. I gently reminded her that all emotions were welcome in our space. That is exactly why she was there — to learn how to welcome and deal with them, and not suppress or push them away.

She gradually settled into that possibility and no longer apologised for emotions showing up by the last session.

Willow’s Results After 5 Sessions

We needed to pause her sessions for various reasons. At the end of every client journey (usually 3 -12 months), I schedule a ‘Celebration Session’ with them so we can go over their progress, what they accomplished through our work, where the next bits of progress need to be focused, and so on.

Willow’s Celebration session was delightful with so many highlights and I’ll share a few, specifically related to the 2 goals she had at the beginning of this article.

Here are some of her own words:

“I became aware of emotional intelligence. The first and 2nd sessions blew me away. I could feel the overwhelm, sadness, and anxiety and with just sitting and tapping, and feeling it in my body, it would pass. It was transcending for me, an eye-opener. That in itself changed so much.

I learned I could feel the trigger and be a step ahead with “Oh, this is coming — I recognize this feeling.”

Then, instead of pushing it away, I could think, “It’s okay to release emotions. These feelings are welcome!”. I use this a lot now!

I really feel the changes. My boyfriend can see the changes in me and our relationship. If he does trigger, me, I can catch it and not react. He was there sometimes when I tapped with hectic stuff and he was like, “WOW!”. He can see how it works for me.

I recently visited my folks and a big thing happened. I called him on the phone. He said, “Willow, TAP!”. I did and once again couldn’t believe how well it worked.

Our work together opened up some things about my childhood and upbringing that were suppressed or denied. Tapping allowed me to look at what was too overwhelming before. I can now look at it more objectively. There are more things I want to work with, and now I’m okay with the process and the time it will take to get there. That feels like a complete shift.

I’ve been to so many people before who did not help. I just needed tools I could use! The insight I gained from you about how the brain and vagus nerve works, the eye-rolling thing, the humming and exercises I could do in different ways helped me so much.”

What was the main thing you wanted help with and how do you feel your progress was in that area?

“I wanted mainly to work on the fainting thing when I saw blood or noticed pain in myself or anyone else.

The issue is most definitely not the same! There have been 2 incidents that proved it to me: when I cut myself, and felt a lump on another occasion.

This time, the overwhelm came but I didn’t faintI tapped myself through it. My boyfriend was with me, and he saw the magic of tapping. It cut through the entire feeling.

I’m not as scared of it anymore. If it comes again, I know how to identify the sensations and emotions that lead up to it, and I have tools to use.

I know I’m not fully healed from it. Blood is still a trigger, and I know I’ll be able to work through it. Even if I DO faint, that would also be okay. I’m not terrified of it anymore. If my body thinks it’s time to faint, I trust it now. I have a better relationship with my body and subconscious.

Before, I was not allowing these feelings. I was resisting the blood and fainting issue. I’m still healing, yet I’ve come such a long way.

What you gave me was the perfect recipe for me, it was exactly what I needed at the time.”

Summary

Every client’s journey is unique and beautiful. Willow’s story filled my heart with joy and immense gratitude for being alongside her as she experienced transformational changes.

It is awful to be terrified of emotions showing up, not know what to do with them, and feel completely out of control. These add more layers to already difficult situations.

It was heart-warming to notice how Willow took EFT and the emotional awareness tools provided and ran with it. She made it her own.

Willow used EFT tapping ahead of a major stage event (she’s a wonderful performer!), as well as at other times when she felt tense, stressed, and scared. She did not leave the tools behind in our sessions, and instead used them when she needed them.

I’m feeling so proud of and glad for her. EFT has been life-changing for Willow, and for me (and so many other clients).

Support

This support is available to you, too. Please reach out to me so we can talk about how best to support you!

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Liesel Teversham

Liesel helps HSP introverts to embrace their sensitivity as a superpower, and overcome obstacles so they can thrive. She also works with clients to solve their health issues, and has authored 2 books. More here.

Published on 2024/07/24

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